Help! My Spouse Needs to go into a Nursing Home & We Can't Lose Everything!

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Nov 30, 2020

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We visited with Jeff Bellomo of Bellomo & Associates and explored what happens when a Loved One needs to go into the Nursing Home. How do you not loose everything? How do we plan for best outcomes? Jeff Bellomo, Bellomo & Associates, 717-845-5390, www.bellomoassociates.com. More questions? Ask Chris Gartman, Publisher, Seniors Blue Book of South Central PA - pa-info@seniorsbluebook.com #Money #Savings #NursingHomes #Safety #Finances #ElderLaw #BellomoAssociates #SeniorsBlueBook

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Make sure your most heartfelt desires are carried out for you and those you love for the rest of their lives.  If you want to ensure that you make the right decisions for your own family when considering life and estate planning decisions, feel free to sit down and talk with us for a free consultation by calling (913) 491-6332, visit our website berger-lawfirm.com or stop by our conveniently located office at 11233 Nall, Suite 140 Leawood, KS 66211 for more information. Berger Estate & Elder Law P.A. has been providing our clients with Trusted Counsel and Proactive Solutions for over 30 years, and we look forward to many more!