Mindfulness & Caregiving: How to Let Go of Fear and Protectionism

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Nov 13, 2019

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If youre a caregiver and a perfectionist, you may be facing an uphill battle. Caregiving is a demanding job, and its critical to accept that not everything will be perfect. As a caregiver, there are many things you cannot control, and the most important thing to do is to let go of chasing perfection and simply aim to do your best.
Throughout our entire lives, people, maybe even the person youre caring for, have told us that nobodys perfect. That phrase applies to caregiving more than nearly any other situation youll face throughout the course of your life. Learn from your mistakes, but also forgive yourself. If you ever practiced poor judgment, whether it was before your loved one got sick or while providing care, you need to let it go.
Caregivers are under far more stress than the average person, and if you dont acknowledge that, youre far more likely to succumb to the causes of caregiver burnout. Being a caregiver is challenging and is often a role that is discounted and marginalized. If at any point you have thought or said some version of, I dont have time to relax due to your obligations as a caregiver, read on.
Time is not your enemy, your to-do list is. Put it down and walk away. Really, walk away; just for a few minutes. No need to panic, it is not going anywhere. One powerful key to reducing caregiver stress lies in the wisdom of mindfulness. Being mindful is proving to be one of the most effective ways to take care of your loved one while fortifying yourself.
Mindfulness is a necessary core competency for everyone. In the long run, creating space for yourself will keep you grounded and peaceful while allowing you to be of service. Small mindful changes over a period as little as a week can begin to yield positive results and include:

Breath awareness
Gratitude and journaling
Connection to others
Nurture and rest
Focusing on the present moment

Editors Note: For more tips on how to be mindful, visit our website at HomeCareAssistance.com. Home Care Assistance Mindfulness & Caregiver White Paper. For the complete guide, email us at hcachicagomedia@homecareassistance.com

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